Friday, March 18, 2011

Permanently Erase Emotional Baggage Responsible For Failed Relationships

Do you recognize there failed relationships are invariably the result of old emotional baggage stored in the subconscious mind and associated with negative beliefs/feelings such as: the fear of commitment, fear of intimacy, low self worth, low self confidence, I'm unlovable, I'm inadequate, I'm needy, dependency feelings, shame, jealousy, insecurity, feelings of loneliness, fears of abandonment and/or rejection and so on? Do you know these are generated by subconsciously stored negative memories from your past which must be completely and permanently erased if you ever hope to have a satisfying and healthy relationship with anyone? So how does one do that you ask?

Negative memories of abandonment, rejection, abuse, neglect, failure, and humiliation and so on leave negative emotional imprints in one's personality structure that are nearly impossible to shake. I hold for case heard more than once how an individual has had years of one therapy or another only to feel like little has changed in how they think or feel about themselves.

The conclude for tonight sad situation is that most "therapies" do not and cannot erase the negative memories for one simple reason; the individuals who employ such approaches either believe that memories cannot be permanently erased or that it is not a good idea to do so because it will somehow change the identity of the person they are working with.

This may go unusual to some of you especially if the latter is exactly what you feel you are looking for.

In fact as shown by a new coaching modality, highly-developed a ten ago and experienced by thousands of individuals, debunks the idea that memories cannot be erased and that is unwise to do so. Later mother-of-thousands of case trials this approach has revealed a stunning result which is that the personality formed by those negative memories does not actually represent the truth about who that individual is.

What do I intend by that?

Well it turnstone out that as children we are highly hypnotizable and whenever we are made to go against our inherent nature (i. e. by experiences of neglect, abuse, abandonment, rejection etcetera ) thither is a trend to take on "roles" that will help us to survive those untenable situations. Unfortunately eventually roles remain with us and often become our default way of being long after the negative events have ended.

In the procedure we leave our true authentic nature and accept the default (imposter) role as our identity/personality. Sadly tonight leads one to feel defective, less than, like there is something inherently wrong with them, shameful, like an imposter and so on.

It wish not surprisal you then that when one feels like this their ability to form healthy emotionally intimate relationships will suffer seriously.

The just way to cure this is to erase those negative memories (i. e. the excited baggage) permanently and assistance one remember and re-associate themselves with their true authentic and empowered self.

The coaching procedure I favored to above has shown the ability to do that. To teach More about this process, to request a free e-copy of my book or to request a free introductory 1 hour telephone/Skype consultation kindly visit the web site below.

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