Avoid Devorce by making commitments towards stopping conflicts

The entire family unit will be affected very strongly by constant arguments and conflicts between Husband and wife. So, the time has come to work towards saving your marriage life.

Are you feeling stress, tension or anger because of your marriage is heading towards divorce and you can do nothing about it?. So, you can do some changes to save your marriage.

I would like to share a very good and practical way of ending the conflicts between you and your spouse. This approach helps the couples to find the good left in their relationship and teaches how to look at conflicts in a different view point. This excellent approach is named as 'The Secret of Marriage'. But in order to get the required results from this method, you should be sure of whether you have enough courage and whether you really want to save your relationship.

Below, I have discussed some steps which will direct you in the correct way to rescue your marriage.

1. You Commitment to stay married should be renewed

    Remember the early days and commitments done for each other. Stop thinking f divorce 

    as a solution.

2. Even you do not like try to act lovingly towards your spouse

    This is very hard to do at the beginning, but if you expect your spouse to show love to 

    you you should start it first.

3. Listen to your Partner

    Try to open doors for communication and listen to what your partner is saying. If you act 

    lovingly this would be easy like never before.

4. Start complimenting

    Now its time to stop the complaints but to start compliments. You should be very 

    conscious to express only positive feelings.

5. Be willing to forgive

    As No body is perfect try to forgive than complaining. Do not think that you are 

    always right. Always a fight has two responsible people. One is  who behaved in a way 

    which results in a fight and the other is responsible for the reaction to that behavior also 

    which results in a fight.

6. Have fun together

    Try to enjoy each others company finally get help from Trained marriage counselor.

If you follow these simple but the best steps you will feel the difference.